We should find self gratification within ourselves – the belief that we are worthy of self love without vainess or conceit. Joy has to come from within – yes, others can contribute to our happiness but when or if they leave, our joy needs to remain. We need to try not to replace it with disappointment or despair. If we are happy with our job (work environment) today and it ends tomorrow are we still happy? If upon receiving a bouquet of flowers we are joyful, when they wither – does joy remain with us? Happiness and joy always need to reside within us.
I find peace in knowing that yes, I can answer these questions knowing that I am happy and peaceful. If the people in my life were to leave, I’ve had moments and memories that will touch me always because I was (allowed) afforded the opportunity to experience them. If my job ended tomorrow, I’ll be happy because of the people I’ve helped and have helped me. If I received a bouquet of flowers that eventually faded, I enjoyed the colors and essence of their fragrance.
What are your answers to happiness?
Monique A. McLaughlin 2009
